Parents and guardians have been urged to take full responsibility for raising their children, warning that the growing neglect of parental duties is contributing to moral decline, social unrest and threats to national cohesion.
Speaking at the start of 2026, Kigoma resident Ms Grace Kafulama said parents should stop delegating the task of child upbringing to others and instead invest time and effort in nurturing children based on acceptable values, traditions and discipline.
She said effective parenting remains the foundation of peace and security within families, communities and the nation, noting that many social challenges, including immoral behaviour and the spread of harmful foreign influences, originate from weak parental guidance.
Ms Kafulama emphasised that proper upbringing goes beyond meeting material needs, such as food, clothing and education, and must include regular engagement with children, open communication and guidance on good morals and responsible behaviour.
She expressed concern over a growing tendency in society to ignore children’s misconduct simply because the children are not one’s own, describing the trend as a major contributor to the erosion of shared values.
“Today, we see children engaging in unacceptable behaviour, yet people choose to remain silent because the child does not belong to them. Parents must understand that they are the first line of guidance. A parent is the first ambassador in correcting, advising and educating a child on good conduct and preparing them for the future,” she said.
She added that no government or leader can replace the role of parents and the community in shaping responsible citizens, stressing that national development begins at the family level.
Ms Kafulama also linked incidents of violence witnessed during and after the October 29, 2025 General Election to poor upbringing among some youths, arguing that responsible parenting could significantly reduce such incidents.
She called on parents, guardians and society at large to revive a culture of collective responsibility in raising children, saying strong family values are essential to safeguarding Tanzania’s peace, unity and long-term development.
